We all have fallen in love atleast once, the butterflies, the excitement, the nervousness, suddenly forgetting what to speak and then forgetting how to speak and then yes bring it on showtime!! You don’t want to speak.
You are hurt, played with. Hopeless, lying in a corner, buried in bed wondering if you are ever going to smile again, ever going to hear “I LOVE YOU” and be able to believe it again, hell!! You don’t even know if you’d be able to love again.
Let me tell you a short story about a lady who had three marriages, no children and two horrible divorces. I was having lunch at her place when she told me that she is in love AGAIN. And as expected I rolled my eyes asking if he is going to stay for a long time? She said “He sees no reason to leave.” After so many heart breaks she is ready to fall in love again and believe in happiness a relationship would bring to her. Is it not perfectly crazy? I have never ever seen such a sucker for love.
Yes it wasn’t logic, but it was love.
Relationships gone wrong are not supposed to turn you bitter and throw away the good remainder in your life. They are an indication that something even bigger is planned for you or maybe it is simply not the best time.
A day will come when you will have that sparkle in your eyes like stars embedded, you will carry a crazy smile on your face and people around you will know that you have found love.
Love happens at the most unexpected places and times.
Mine happened when I was with that person holding hands and there is nothing but silence between us and yet very comfortable. I was head over heels in love that moment. I still am. You won’t even know when it hits you, you will keep denying it, but you will know what changed in you. It is an entirely different emotion which is weirdly contagious, stupid and satisfying and don’t worry nobody will go unloved in the end.
So quit crying and quit disconnecting yourself from the people who loves you by default.
True love doesn’t keep you grounded, it sets you free.